I have learned what intention is and how to confront somebody and something. Additionally, I have had a big gain which is that I can see the reality of a cripple. So I can really understand my son. Because my son is a cripple. This gain can help me to confront my son better. And I know the only way to help my son to stand up and walk through counselling. Then let him know that he is a spiritual being. If he can control his body then body won't be a problem to him!